Dreams and Fighting

Dreams and Fighting


author: Andrie Wongso

Narrated, in 1867, there lived a German-born engineer named John Augustus Roebling. He dreamed of building a bridge that connects New York City and Long Island. John's dream did not get support even ridiculed by many of his friends. They assume that the project is the idea most crazy and impossible! So, John was only able to share the dream with his son, Washington Roebling. Washington is also a technical expert. Father and son fought together to realize that dream.

When the project has been running for several months, there was a fatal accident. Unfortunately, because of the help that late, John Roebling could not be saved. As for Washington, although his life survived, but suffered severe injuries on his head which left him paralyzed and unable to speak. However, impaian his father about the "bridge" never goes out of his mind.

One day, when Washington lay helpless on his bed, he saw daylight through the window of his room, blinding and painful eye. Soon his eyelids closed, and at that time also, there arose a consciousness, "Today I can still enjoy the beautiful glow of the sun, meaning, God is still giving me time to do. And I must not give up! "With every effort he was concentrating and trying to move a finger. The work done over and over with enthusiasm and concentration, was not in vain. He managed to move his finger! Slowly, Washington was able to make the code to communicate with his wife, Emily, through one's fingers.

Even so slowly at first, in a way like that, Washington gave instructions to her to proceed with creating the bridge. All instructions given to Emily and then conveyed further to loyal employees who helped to achieve their dreams. So repeatedly. Them through various obstacles that are not few in number. It took a long time to struggle with all the remaining strength and toughness, and it took over 13 years to realize his dream. Finally, in 1883, the Brooklyn Bridge (Brooklyn Bridge) stands majestically in the City of New York, United States.

Exceptional companions,

The story above is an example of that positive thoughts and the real struggle is capable of holding tight and could realize what a dream in which if the impossible possible!

How extraordinary power of the human mind! The human mind can make life miserable or happy, fail or succeed, ordinary or extraordinary. If we follow the negative thoughts, then our lives it will be negative as well: life is full of anxiety, passivity, fear and lack. But if we are able to develop positive thinking, optimistic, positive and always hopeful, and have a high commitment in realizing all his dreams, then we will live with passion, gratitude, happy, successful, and happy ... every day!

Let us choose to live with a positive mindset. We choose to live with positive activities. And we choose so that our quality of life is useful for us and for many people ...!

Regards successful, Extraordinary!

The Road to Success

The Road to Success
Writer: Suhardi

there was a time, a man was walking in a place to search for treasure. Until finally, he arrived at a fork of three. Incidentally there are parents who were standing on the edge of the crossroads.

He was confused because there are three roads leading in different directions. He was hard to decide not to choose the way you want to go. Then he asked the old man, "Hey, old man. May I ask? I was on my way looking for treasure. But in front of me there are three different paths. Can you show me the right way?"

The old man did not answer. He just pointed the way first.

The man thanked her and immediately take the first road.

A few moments later, the man who'd come back again. But this time his whole body stained with mud. He approached the old man and said, "Hey, old man. Just now I asked directions to the treasure and you are pointing to the first street. But I'm actually stuck into the mud pool area. My body would get dirty like this." He then asked, "Now where the path to the treasure? Please show me!"

The old man remained silent. He then pointed to the path of the two.

The man then thanked her and immediately take the latter path.

A few moments later, he was back again. Her body is not only exposed deep mud, but also filled with torn pants and leg injuries such as scratches something.

This time he approached the old man with facial expressions kesal.Ia said with a little angrily, "Hey, old man! I was just asking directions to the treasure and you are pointing to the latter path. But, the road was full of brambles. My whole leg so injured by scratches of thorns. "

This time he asked, "Now I ask you again, where the road to the treasure? You had twice lied and hurt me. Once again lied, you will know the consequences."

The old man remained silent, without removing a word. He is now pointing to the road to three.

"Are you confident and do not lie?" he asked.

The old man nodded his head and once again pointed to the third street.

The man immediately left the old man. But a few moments later, he returned again as he ran like scared. With shortness of breath, he asked angrily, "Hey, old man! Do you want to kill me? On the road there was a lot of wild animals. That is tantamount to looking dead."

The old man finally opened his mouth, saying, "All the roads were actually able to go to the treasure. It's just to get there, you have to go through that path. You can choose the past a pool of mud, thorn bush, or wild animals. You can select one. If you really want to go to where the treasure, you must dare to pass through one of them. If you do not want, please return it. "

Once mendegar explanation of the old man, he bowed his head. He backed up, canceled his trip and return home ...

Message to readers:

I'm sure everyone in the spirit will answer "Yes" when asked if they want to achieve success. But most do not dare to answer when asked if they are willing to pay the price. The fact that often happens is that many people are not willing to take the path of success that looks very heavy. They just want to directly reach the finish line, but do not ever want to put step to achieve the finish line.



One of the challenges you face while struggling to achieve success is to push yourself to go forward despite the way that you are very heavily traveled, winding, and full of obstacles. The challenge is what often makes a person become shriveled balls. The challenge is what ultimately led to a lot of people do not dare to pay the price of success. They are not prepared to pay and would prefer to forget they want to achieve success.

No matter what goals you want to accomplish, obstacles still exist and will not be lost. Where there is success, there are obstacles that obstruct it. Only successful people who dare to face the hurdles after hurdles to finally reach the goal. Instead people prefer to surrender failed. And more sadly, they do not even dare to try to see how hard the journey that must be passed. Mentally they are already defeated long before they start.

Obstacles will always stand in front of success. You have to dare to pass through before it managed to get success. There are two choices, complain and blame the hurdles it or push yourself to overcome these obstacles. You may blame the obstacles that seem to always facing you. But try to think about, whether that barrier will disappear by way of spilling your resentment? No way!

Change Action and Achieve Wonders

Change Action and Achieve Wonders
Writer: Suhardi

A man was waiting to be thrown off a plane in an airport lounge. Hose 30 minutes later, a voice that comes out of the speakers told the passengers that the flight number so the purpose of X immediately boarded the plane.

The man then boarded the plane and find a seat according to ticket. Incidentally he sat beside the emergency exit or emergency exit doors. Not long later after all the passengers were on the seat, there came a flight attendant who approached the man.

Beautiful flight attendant told her, "Excuse me sir. Incidentally you sit beside the emergency exit. For that we request your cooperation. If something comes up and forced to land an emergency, please open the emergency door you this so that passengers can get out of an emergency. For more details, please read the safety instructions in the instruction book. "

The man rose to nod their heads to understand what the stewardess was. Then he and another flight attendant immediately provide safety instructions to passengers when the plane began to walk slowly toward the runway.

The plane managed to takeoff and the air leaving the airport. Everything was progressing normally and no problems at all. But in the middle of the journey, the aircraft engine suddenly problematic and should be made an emergency landing. The passengers panicked. They were asked to wear a safety vest and pray that does not happen.

The man was sitting beside the emergency exit immediately remembered the words of the stewardess had to immediately open an emergency exit in case of problems. So he immediately opened the emergency door. He tried to open, but the door does not open. At the moment the plane closer to the mainland, he was increasingly panicked and pushed with all his strength, punching and even kicking the door. But, the door still will not open.

He began to surrender. He thought his life would soon end. Emergency door would not open and he would not make it out alive. But fortunately, turned out to be an emergency landing the plane safely though a little crushed. All passengers survived and none were seriously injured although many of them were so shocked.

Aircraft door finally opened and the passengers and immediately rushed out to save themselves. The man had come out at a rapid pace. Fortunately nothing happened that gruesome. All breathe easier because of the critical period has passed.

He was then recalled by the flight attendant who was giving instructions to him. He was soon looking for and finally succeeded him. He said with a little angry, "You told me to open the emergency exit, but the door did not open."

Then the flight attendant replied, "The door is functional and not damaged."

The man replied in exasperation, I pushed and kicked the door until my hand away in pain, but still not open. "

Hearing the man's explanation, the flight attendant sighed and shook his head and said, "The door must be pulled, not pushed, opens a new can. Are you'd read the instruction book?"

The man's face red with embarrassment. He said, "I do not read it."

Message to readers:

The story above may be common in most people. They are doing something, but when they want to get different results, they instead continue to do the same thing over and over again. That's called "crazy" by Albert Einstein, who refers to people who keep doing the same action and hoping for different results.

If you plant an orange seed, then you will harvest oranges. If you do not want to oranges, but apples, then you have to plant an apple seed. That's a simple analogy. But many people are stuck with a lemon seeds to plant, hoping to harvest apples.

Often success can not be achieved because it is not sensitive to the results obtained and continue to do the same. In fact one of the success formula is flexible with the action we take. If we take actions that continue to bring disappointing results, that means we have to change and take different actions. If it fails again, we must act again in a different way until we succeed. That is what is called flexible.

Many people are not flexible. As a result, they keep doing the wrong thing. Even they do not realize that such actions bring them in the wrong direction. No wonder many do not understand why they still have not succeeded yet been acted and never give up.

Often success is so close to us. The distance to within a degree of flexibility of our actions. If it is not flexible and keep doing the same action is wrong, then do not expect success to come even though the success was so close. Is it possible to see the sunrise, if you always run to the west?

Suhardi (Author of "Patterns of Success")
http://www.facebook.com/suhardi.inspirator.motivator

Unconditional Love

Unconditional Love 

author: Andrie Wongso

It is said, there is a large family. Their grandparents are married couples who seem harmonious and always in harmony with one another. One day, when gathered together, the grandson asked them both, "Grandparents, please tell us the recipe to get along and how grandparents love for this to retain our young can learn."

Hearing the question, just the grandparents made eye contact with each other smile. From the look of both, radiated a sense of deep love between them. "Aha, my grandmother who would tell you and answer your questions," said the grandfather.

As he gazed into the past, the grandmother started the story. "This is the experience of grandparents who can not be forgotten and it feels good to hear you. One day, we were both involved conversation about an article in the magazine entitled 'how to strengthen the knot." There is written, each one of us are required to record things that are less favored than our spouse. Then, discuss ways to modify it to tie knot can be stronger and happier. Well, that night, we agreed to split the room and record whatever is not preferred. The next day, over breakfast, my grandmother started first read out a list of all the sins of your grandfather about three pages. Come to think of it, but many also, and more surprisingly, so many do not like, but still you become husband and beloved grandfather grandmother, "the grandmother said with a laugh. His old eyes looked glazed look back at that time.

Then the grandmother continued, "My grandmother read it until finished and exhausted. And, now turn your grandfather who melanjutakan storytelling." With a subdued voice, the old man continued. "That morning, my grandfather took the paper as well, but .... empty. My grandfather did not record anything else on the paper. Grandpa felt she was the woman who loved what the grandfather, grandfather did not want to change it one bit. Your grandmother is beautiful, kind, and want to marry your grandfather, it was more than enough for my grandfather. "

Distinguishing Intonation mean

Distinguishing Intonation mean


Once, on one day in a small village, a carpenter received a letter. Because of illiteracy, then hurriedly went to a butcher he knew, who had a strong character, to ask for help reading the letter.

 "It's a letter from your son," cried the butcher. "Here he said: Dad, I'm sick and penniless cent. Please send me some money as soon as possible. Your son. "Thus, the letter was read in a voice loud and harsh tones by the butcher. Instantly the carpenter was angry. He said, "You ungrateful child! So she is, can rule me, father? Do not think I'll send him cent! "

In his anger, he returned home. But the journey, he met his friend, a tailor who soft-spoken. So he told me about the letter earlier.

"Why do not you see my boy this letter!" He said.

The seamstress then read the letter in her gentle, calm, and clear.

Suddenly, another very meaningful letter. The carpenter had to be sad. "Oh my poor!" She said anxiously. "He must have suffered, I'd better send her money now."

A wise friend ...

The message is very dependent on the manner of delivery. Often, the conflict between couples, friends, or colleagues, arises not because there is a large and complex problem that can not be solved. But because we can not manage to deliver a thing.

Please note: for example when we disagree with the opinion of someone, you should convey to the patient, friendly, and clear. So who heard it will be easier to accept / digest and more contention can be avoided.

Come, learn to behave better in the "wrap" message that we want to convey.

How To Avoid Negative Thoughts - 3 Proven-To-Work Methods

How To Avoid Negative Thoughts - 3 Proven-To-Work Methods

Glass Wrecking hammer , but Hammers Forming Steel

Glass Wrecking hammer, but Hammers Forming Steel
What is the meaning of the ancient Russian proverb?

If our souls fragile as glass, then when the mallet / hit problems, we will easily discouraged, frustrated, disappointed, angry, and so despondent.

If we are the glass, then we are also vulnerable to collisions. We're easily offended, disappointed, angry, or hurt while we relate to others. Little impact has been more than enough to destroy our relationship.

Do not ever be a glass, but be steel. Mental mental steel is always positive, even grateful when a problem remains and the circumstances that was really hard squeezing.

Why is that?
People who like this always assume that "the problem is the process of life to shape it for the better". A piece of steel who would be a more useful tool after first processed and shaped with a hammer. Every blow is painful, but the mental steel to realize that it's always good to him.

If today we are being oppressed by the problems of life, never respond with the wrong attitude!
If we are "steel", we will always see the hammer that struck us as friends that will shape us.
Conversely, if we are "glass" then we will always see the hammer as an enemy who would destroy us.

Xiaofeng Peng - Success For Learning and Courage

Xiaofeng Peng - Success For Learning and Courage 

Writer: Tim AndrieWongso.com 

Many young people today because of internet based business aiming to make money easy, cheap, and get rich quick. But work on the real sector (production of goods) is also able to create new millionaires from the capital does not amount to much. One of them was Peng Xiaofeng, a young Chinese-born, 34 years ago. 

Unlike the young, successful businessman from the West who tend to drop-outs (such as Mark Zuckerberg - Facebook or Bill Gates at Microsoft's launch), Xiaofeng develop because of active learning. In addition, he is also smart as seen from the track record of brilliant education, always top three in school and never Mathematics Olympic champion in his country. 

During high school he not only English language courses, but also taught himself Japanese and Germans did not find the place after the course. After graduating high school he continued his studies at the School of Foreign Trade, Jiangxi to achieve the diploma in 1993. After that, pursuing MBA at Beijing University Guanghua School of Management which she completed in 2002. 

But success can not be achieved easily. Xiaofeng undergo several stages of life before pursuing a business that made him one of Asia's richest young people in the world. Began when he worked in Jian City Bureau of Foreign Trade, an export development agency in the province of Jiangxi. At this institution he served analyze China's foreign trade. 

Maybe that's where he found the export opportunities. That is not at all. In 1997 along with a few friends founded the Liuxing Industries Limited, an import-export company dealing in trading of safety equipment such as gloves, safety shoes, work clothes, and so on. He also volunteered to come out of the city of Jian foregin Trade Bureau to better manage their own business seriously. 

However, the institutions of local government resign because its performance is quite good. Somehow the story, Xiaofeng really got the idea of ​​establishing his own company that manufactures safety equipment. Then the Jiangxi provincial government is willing to invest. From Suzhou Industrial Company Limited Liuxin standing, cooperation with local governments Jiangxi company. With the founding of this company has integrated business Xiaofeng between safety equipment manufacturers (through Suzhou Liuxin) and marketing company (Liuxing Industry). 

Good relations with local governments also take advantage when he had the idea to develop a Solar Power Plant (PLTS). One time in 2001, because he often served to represent a European company, Xiaofeng realize how Europe increasingly intensive use of PLTS. This idea appears. He wants to encourage the Chinese government to develop well and he supplies the panel suryanya PLTS. But it was not easy because he is blind to technology. 

Fortunately the spirit of learning never subsided. After studying here and there even to visit a solar cell factory in the U.S., in 2005 he established the Jiangxi LDK Solar Co. Ltd., a manufacturer of solar panels and its supporting products. He is very tactical raise money. Before the plant was established he marketed it to the provincial government of Jiangxi. And after the government can be convinced and willing to buy products for PLTS will be built in the province, he sought a loan. It is not difficult to obtain capital when the buyer is certain. From this stand Jiangxi LDK Solar Co. Ltd.. 

 The company began to produce solar cells from raw materials, installation, maintenance and other support. Before long he was getting lots of orders. Even he could export it. This business is not so much in the world, probably because its application has not been popular. Xiaofeng now owned company became the largest supplier of solar cell industry in the world. Xiaofeng, founder and major shareholder, has become one of the richest young man in the world. According to estimates by Forbes magazine, his wealth reached U.S. $ 2.5 billion, or around Rp 21.2 trillion! All because Xiaofeng properly manage potential through learning and the courage to take risks. 

There are successful in our Hands grip

There are successful in our Hands grip



Authors: Andrie Wongso

The story illustrates that the real forces that determine our future lies in our ability to maximize its potential. Those who are optimists will always be aware of the situation himself gratefully. With grateful they were able to maximize what he has. This is what will lead us to independence, do not rely on others, because we believe we have the ability.




Everyone is certainly different from the others. Each has advantages and disadvantages. Then, if someone is born with physical deficiencies, lack of opportunity for the schools, lack of geography or area of ​​residence, parents are poor, have no chance to be a successful person?


If that fact, why many people with disabilities, for example, can be successful by defeating a normal person? Why is Stevie Wonder, the singer who was born without sight, can be successful and become a living legend who beat them normal? Why are the people who once poor are now able to enter the World Forbes Billionaire row or rows of the richest people in the world?


Only those who believe that success is in the hands of his own and dare to fight desperately to be successful. This is exactly the philosophy that I often say. Success is My Right! Success is our right! Therefore, no matter what our potential, let us know it, let us strive for. Success was waiting for us!
Authors: Andrie Wongso


The story illustrates that the real forces that determine our future lies in our ability to maximize its potential. Those who are optimists will always be aware of the situation himself gratefully. With grateful they were able to maximize what he has. This is what will lead us to independence, do not rely on others, because we believe we have the ability.




Everyone is certainly different from the others. Each has advantages and disadvantages. Then, if someone is born with physical deficiencies, lack of opportunity for the schools, lack of geography or area of ​​residence, parents are poor, have no chance to be a successful person?


If that fact, why many people with disabilities, for example, can be successful by defeating a normal person? Why is Stevie Wonder, the singer who was born without sight, can be successful and become a living legend who beat them normal? Why are the people who once poor are now able to enter the World Forbes Billionaire row or rows of the richest people in the world?


Only those who believe that success is in the hands of his own and dare to fight desperately to be successful. This is exactly the philosophy that I often say. Success is My Right! Success is our right! Therefore, no matter what our potential, let us know it, let us strive for. Success was waiting for us!

In Fate's in our Hands grip

In  Fate's in our Hands grip

Politics  always bear his heroic example.  Helle Thorning-Schmidt's victory  in the Danish general election 15 September 2011  reminded the world that these women politicians never give up. As a woman, he faces a big challenge to achieve that position.  He must convince his people that a woman can lead Denmark.


His struggle has been a long time he did and failed at the election victory of 2007 when just one step away. Now he is waiting for the inauguration to become Denmark's first woman Prime Minister as well as showing that the emancipation of the country's going well.


In Indonesia, the struggle for the emancipation of women has always identified with RA Kartini. Now many Indonesian women who become leaders within small organizations, enterprises, ministries, and even became president. Kartini message has been practiced.


Actually the essence of the message is universal and self-reliance doctrine implies that thick. Meaning not only for women but men as a whole. That one's fate is determined by the people themselves, not by others. Success is determined by the person himself, rather than relying on people for help.

Life Full of Gratitude

Life Full of Gratitude


author : Andrie Wongso

Who live in the mountains miss the beach. Who live in the coastal mountains missed.
  In the dry season, missed the rainy season. In the rainy season, missed the dry season.
  Black-haired, admiring the blonde. The blond, admiring the black.
  Stay home, yearn to travel. After traveling, homesick.
  When still be an employee, want to be entrepreneurs in order to have time to work for free As soon become an entrepreneur, instead want to be employees, so enggak dizziness ...
  Quiet time, searching the crowd. Busy time, seeking peace.
  When I was single, wanted a handsome husband / wife beautiful. Once it can be husband and handsome / beautiful wife, actually even want the biasa2 only, so not jealous / afraid of cheating
  When a child has one, many children crave. When it had many children, longing for one child only.
  Remarkable friend,
  When happiness will we get if we always think about what is not there, but ignore what is already owned?
  Be a person who is always grateful for the blessings we already have yαng!
  How could a small piece of leaf that can cover this vast earth? Far from earth, it is difficult to cover the palm of the hand! But if this little leaf stuck in our eyes, then tertutuplah earth!
  So also when our hearts, when covered with the slightest bad thought, then we will see evil everywhere. This earth will look bad.
  Come, do not close our eyes, although only with a small leaf. Do not also cover our hearts, even if its just a bad thought / negative! When our heart is closed, tertutuplah all .. Thankful for what I had, because life is a boon for the souls who sincerely.

phoenix dui lawyers-Need Positive Thinking Trained

phoenix dui lawyers-Need Positive Thinking Trained

Writer: Tim AndrieWongso.com

Former British Prime Minister, Winston Churchill, had words of wisdom are timeless: A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an Optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty. A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty. No different from the objects facing the pessimistic and optimistic. There is only a different perspective. The optimist looked at him with positive thoughts, while the pessimistic with negative thoughts.

Having positive thinking had to be socialized and trained constantly so that someday will grow into the character. But how to cultivate this habit? The following tips can be useful.Verbal affirmations every dayWhen we encounter a problem or opportunity, there are two possibilities that could be done. We felt able to cope or do, but on the other hand would doubt our ability. Technically, we are in fact very capable of doing it but we pulled uncertainty in a static manner so that we can not do anything.According to some experts, the best way to overcome this problem is to do affirmations, that is to say positive words to us. In the morning after waking up, say to ourselves that we can do anything we want. Such "You can!" or, "You can do it!" The louder our words more able to influence our subconscious. Do it every day for about 10 minutes.Use positive wordsUsing positive words have a good influence. An expert named Dr. Susan Jeffers says, "No matter whether we believe in the words or not, but those words affect our subconscious." If we are accustomed to using negative words, the results of which we can negatiflah. So even if we always use positive words positive results that we will be.Attach a picture or writingAttaching the visualization of what we want will have a positive impact in the achievement. What we want to reach, attach pictures or words. Look at every opportunity, imagine what we will feel when can reach it. This will encourage positive thoughts.Fill around us with positive imagesThis could be a positive image of the words of motivational posters, inspirational images, even writing affirmations to convince themselves in a small card or paper paste which is easily seen.Because it gave the room decoration with posters or pictures that can arouse inspiration or pep up our confidence. One time when we're stressed, look, or read so that we will refocus on the desire we are pursuing.Often say "Thank You"Gratitude will affect our minds. Saying "Thank You" will publish a positive mind. But how many times a day we say "Thank You"? We may even forget to say thank you when, for example, helped people in the fall. Yet more often grateful, the more positive thoughts awakened.Listen to motivational descriptionListening to motivational exposure will build positive thoughts. We can hear the show on the radio or adjust motivational motivational CDs while driving on the road. It would be a kind of "charging" for our mental.

Mesothelioma-Dare to Forgive Others

Mesothelioma-Dare to Forgive Others
Authors: Andrie Wongso




   

Beginning in August 2011 there is interesting news from Iran. A beautiful woman who poured the acid damage to her face and her eyes blind to forgive the offender.The woman is Ameneh Bahrami, Iranian-born in 1978, which doused Majid Movahedi in 2004 because of rejected courtship. Movahedi was arrested while waiting for qisas punishment, ie punishment principled retaliation in kind, a kind of punishment "lives life to pay". In the case Bahrami, he may ask the court to blind the eyes of actors as they experienced.The court ruled the law qisas conducted on July 31, 2011 and broadcast live by television. A few seconds before the acid is splashed in the eye Movahedi, a doctor who would pour liquid Bahrami was asked, "What would you do now?"Movahedi was crying uncontrollably as she knelt. Fear of blindness and eye shadow incomparable pain that made her beg for forgiveness. Everyone was tense watch. A signal from the process Bahrami qisas punishment would be carried out. However, Bahrami was saying the words beyond expectations. "I forgive him, I forgive him," said Bahrami. Then the eyes of the perpetrator had survived.What a noble attitude Bahrami, he courageously forgiving those who have blinded him throughout his life. "The best thing is to forgive when we are in a position of power," Bahrami said explaining his decision. But there Bahrami mother saying that we ought to refer to. He said, "Forgiveness is going to calm Bahrami and our family."Friends of the Extraordinary,As I discussed in a live talk show on network Radio Sonora on Monday morning, to review the story "Do not Save the Potato Rot ', forgiveness is not easy. But forgiveness can calm us. Conversely, revenge is not necessarily eliminate hatred. Maybe it will grow a sense of guilt within us because of revenge after that we feel as bad as those who have made us suffer.Scientifically any excuse or forgive the other person has a positive value. The results showed that those who harbored grudges and nurture hatred, his life was not calm. Medically they have a high pulse (unhealthy), high blood pressure, and muscles tighten. If allowed to continue they could be having a heart attack. Instead, they are willing to forgive others, normal blood pressure, normal cardiac work, and his muscles relaxed. In short, a forgiving have better health records.The study showed that "forgive others" not only good for mental health, but also good for our physical health. Therefore, before Idul Fitri, which will fall a few days away, let's open the door of forgiveness. It would not hurt to forgive others, we even have the benefit of no measure.